The Lost Art of Date Night

In excavating our weekly tradition after becoming new parents, my wife and I found something else.

View in Browser The Lost Art of Date Night Something was off the other night as my wife and I sat in the corner banquette at Four Twenty Five on Park Avenue, just a few streets shy of the Upper East Side.   As we ate the last of the season's tomatoes and admired the army of light fixtures dangling from the high ceiling of the sixty-second restaurant opened by chef Jean-Georges Vongerichten, I asked Emily if she knew why it was different. She looked around at a dining room packed with men out on dates with much younger women, and then she joked it was because I appeared too young to be there, and she—seven years younger than me—was too old. But that wasn't it, I told her. As I watched our food make its way from the kitchen to our table, I nervously checked my phone again. The deal with our dinners is that we try our best to block everything out—not look at our phones or talk too much about work. A dinner date is supposed to be just us and nobody else. 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Then another chord, tripping a blast of drums and a bolt of clear light revealing five musicians and R.E.M.'s lead singer, Michael Stipe, shouting a single word into his microphone. Read the Full Story Follow Us Unsubscribe | Privacy Notice | CA Notice at Collection Esquire is a publication of Hearst Magazines. ©2024 Hearst Magazine Media, Inc. All Rights Reserved. This email was sent by Hearst Magazines, 300 West 57th Street, New York, NY 10019-3779